Parental involvement in a child's musical education is more important than before.
Usually,
the age when children normally begin learning musical instruments is
the age when they need lots of encouragement and approval. Parental
involvement can help foster their children's growth and at the same time
see rapid results.
Read further for the seven key ways you can be involved in your child's progress:
1. Be supportive of their choice of musical instrument.
OK,
you've never been very fond of loud noise, so it might be a little
uncomfortable when your child tells you he wants to play the trumpet.
However, realize that your child's choice of musical instrument reflects
his interests. Whether he chooses a loud or soft instrument, your child
is still showing a desire to express himself through music. If he
decides he wants to sound really good on, say, drums, this goal will
motivate him to spend significant amounts of time practicing, rather
than being bored or restless.
2. Help them set a consistent daily practice time.
Consistency
is key. For beginners, I recommend practicing 30 minutes a day. But 30
minutes all at once may seem like forever! So, work with your child to
incorporate practice time into their schedule. And remember, it doesn't
need to be 30 minutes consecutively. Does your child have 10 free
minutes between breakfast and having to catch the school bus? Set aside
those 10 minutes for practice time. What about 10 more minutes as soon
as she gets home? The last 10 minutes can in the evening, either before
or after homework. Make sure that you are aware of the practice
schedule, and gently remind your child when it is time to practice.
3. Encourage them to perform for you several times a week.
During
elementary and middle school, children are still at an age where they
seek your approval and want to make you happy. So, let them do that! How
about asking them to hold a concert for you once or twice a week? Tell
them they can decide what songs they want to play, and then set up an
area in your family room where they can give the concert. If there are
older siblings, ask them to be present as well. After the concert, make
sure to tell your child specific things you enjoyed about their
performance.
4. Take them to different types of concerts and musical theater events.
Ever
since I can remember, my mom has played recordings of traditional
Chinese music in the house. This constant exposure to music at an early
age helped me to gain an awareness and appreciation for quality music.
If music is a constant in your home environment, then your child will
sub-consciously absorb its positive influence. By exposing your child to
recordings and performances, your child will begin to develop a natural
ear for what good music can sound like. Many schools and local theaters
have performances throughout the year. Great opportunities abound, so
make sure to take advantage of them.
5. Praise them for every accomplishment.
Praise
must be genuine. If it is false or is merely masking criticism, your
child will pick up on it. No matter what level your child is at, there
will be something positive to praise. Whether it is learning a new note
or a new song, be proud of your child for that. Praise them in front of
their siblings or friends. They will remember your positive words, and
it will serve to motivate them in an invaluable way.
6. Select a teacher who is compatible with your child's personality
Since
band directors have on average thirty to forty students to instruct
during any given class, it's very hard to address each child's
individual needs. If you decide to seek outside help by inviting a
private teacher to work with your child, keep in mind that the teacher's
personality is as equally important as his/her background and
accomplishments. If your child feels like he can trust his teacher, he
will be more inspired to practice outside of lessons, and you will
notice much quicker progress.
7. Reward your child.
In
addition to verbal praise, give your child tangible rewards. For
example, when she has achieved a personal goal, take her out for ice
cream, her favorite movie, or a day at the zoo. Or perhaps reward her
with a CD from her favorite flutist.
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